The Wedding dress of Your Dreams

A good start for ideas for designing a wedding dress is to consider the theme of the wedding. Is the wedding going to be held in the summer? Winter? Outdoors? Indoors? Answers to these questions can have a significant bearing on the style of wedding dress you design. For example, an outdoor wedding in Texas in the month of August surely necessitates a wedding dress that will not have you soaked in perspiration. You can also consider how formal the wedding ceremony is going to be. Don't have a design already in your head? While bridal magazines offer more trendy wedding dress styles, you can obtain some ideas to use to design your own wedding dress.

While you are free to design a wedding dress that reflects your own personal style, it will more than likely follow one of the standard shapes available for wedding dresses: A-line, empire, straight, ball gown, mermaid, or strapless. The shape of your body is a helpful factor in deciding the shape of wedding dress that is most appropriate for you. If you have a full figure, or what is considered a "pear" shape, an A-line style dress may work best for you. A dress with this style accents the top-half of the body that is smaller while concealing a larger bottom half. Not many women opt for the straight wedding dress, including women with coke-bottle figures, for whom this style of wedding dress was designed to fit. If you don't really fit either of these two, a ball gown may be the choice for you. This style of wedding dress features a more snug look at the waist with an exaggerated full skirt. If you're not sure which style is best for you, visit a bridal shop and try on several styles to see which one appeals to you the most.

Once you have chosen the design, style and shape of your wedding dress, you are ready to consider the type of material. Silk and linen are two types of material that are commonly used to create wedding dresses. They both can be costly and linen is very delicate so you have to be careful with it when putting your dress together. There are materials that blend with these materials with other man-made materials, such as polyester to create a fabric that is beautiful and more forgiving.

You are now ready to work with the individual who will make the wedding dress for you and ultimately the wedding dress of your dreams! 

Choose your own wedding

The more popular method of saying your wedding vows now is to make them yourself and then say them to each other at the wedding, your vows are your own personal thoughts and feelings how you feel

about your partner, make your vows yourself and speak from the heart It doesn’t matter what you say but if you mean it, that’s what counts.

Your vows are kept secret from each other until it is time to say them, you can memorize them which most people do or you can have a slip of paper with you that helps you to say them as making your vows is a very emotional experience.

Whether you choose your own wedding vows or say the traditional vows they still mean the same thing, the still mean that you as a couple will fight through everything that you come to together and that nothing can keep you apart. That every single brick thrown at you isn’t run away from it is used to build a wall together if you catch my drift. Wedding vows are the most emotional and beautiful part of any wedding.

Special wedding for you.

It is traditional for the bride and bride groom to have their first dance as a married couple, so it is best to make sure that your DJ has the track or if you have a band that the band knows how to play the song! After the newly weds get up to dance it then starts in order of the best man and man of honour, parents of the bride and the groom etc. Later on in the evening the father of the bride has a dance with his daughter, if the daughter’s father is not there than she is to dance with her father in law.

Songs are very important, they are like tags in your memory which when you hear the song takes you straight back to that memory and relives it! It is best to choose a song that means something to both you and your partner and will remain in your head for the rest of time.

Wedding Song

If every time you hear a song you go into a fit of pelvic gyrations, this is probably not a good choice for a wedding song. Songs of this nature are left for you and your mate's private listening pleasure. Remember, you will dance to your wedding song while your guests watch. The last thing you want to do is make them feel uncomfortable. Of course, the wedding song should be something unique and special for the couple. It may very well be the case that "Nothing Else Matters" by Metallica, is an appropriate wedding song. However, if your wedding ceremony and reception takes place in a church, certain songs may be considered disrespectful or unacceptable. Make sure you obtain the proper approval for your wedding song choice.

Plain and simple, a wedding song should convey the love and devotion that the bride and groom have for one another. It's a good idea to listen closely to a song you are considering before you actually make it your wedding song. Many songs that are considered about love are often about breaking up. The wedding song should also be a song you both enjoy. If you can't agree on one particular song, a montage of two or more songs can serve as your wedding song.

Wedding bands.

The wedding bands symbolize unity and a constant circle, they are you and your partner together through everything, thick and thin, sickness and health and everything else that a married couple in love will go through together but it means that although there may be rocky or bubbly parts you will still be together to the end and the circle will continue! Some mothers pass their wedding rings down to their daughters as a symbol of love and friendship, not when they are married of course, but when their husband passes away and they are left widowed.

Wedding rings are usually bought from a jeweller but they can be purchased second hand or even on the internet, yes the internet does sell everything these days! The most important part of the wedding is saying "I do" then slipping that ring onto the person that you love finger knowing that you will spend the rest of your life loving them and cherishing them, no day is more special than your wedding day!

Wedding planners.

Wedding planners are usually women or eccentric men who may be have one of the best jobs in the world. They have control and organisational skills and know how to make things work, but it does not always suit the bride and the groom, often a wedding planner’s own tastes come into play and that then takes the special feelings and unique moments out of planning a wedding!

I say the best thing that you can do is stick together with the support of your friends and family and muddle through with the wedding plans, they may not the best organized or the fanciest but they are yours and your partners moments together leading up to your big day, the last chance you will have to spend as an unofficial couple, as in the next few months you will be married, and then there is no going back!